The persecuters game

True supporters believe that the other can handle their own business. They believe that everyone has the right to make mistakes and learn through sometimes hard consequences. Self-accountability is the only way off the grid for the persecutor.

There has to be some kind of breakthrough to them to own their part. Unfortunately, because of their great reluctance to do so, it may have to come in the form of crisis.

Nope, no one had seen them. I snatched them back. When everyone was home later that night, I told everyone where I had found my earrings. I was clearly the victim, right? Well…My girlfriend could not come out of denial that her daughter had taken the earrings, and her daughter denied taking them, stating she had no idea how they wound up in her jewelry box, so my girlfriend began to feel angry at me for blaming her daughter, persecuting me but making me the persecutor and her daughter the victim and my girlfriend the rescuer of her daughter.

My girlfriend and her daughter not taking responsibility keeps us all in the triangle. A good example of the game could be this fictitious argument between John and Mary, a married couple.

P Mary: Well, little Johnny fell and skinned his knee. Dinner burned while I was busy getting him a bandage. R John: You baby that boy too much! R John: A waste of an expensive steak! How was I supposed to know? You always ignore the kids! P John: I do not. I just need time to sit and relax and unwind after working all day! This argument could continue indefinitely.

What is of interest is how one can remove oneself from the triangle. The simplest method is the non-defensive response. They might experience vast amounts of abuse and might present as ageless, emotionless, and nonhuman as a way to process this and cope. Gatekeepers may or may not also serve as an internal self helper. For those who believe in cores, internal self helpers are often viewed as the first alter to be created or as the normally pseudo-separate internal voice of logic and reason that all people possess.

Within the theory of structural dissociation, internal self helpers are often viewed as observing parts or hidden observers, both less than distinct states. Internal self helpers may or may not also serve as a gatekeeper. Fragment: A fragment is an alter that is not fully differentiated or developed.

Fragments may exist to carry out a single function or job, to hold a single memory or emotion, or to represent a single idea. Depending on the way that individual systems use the term, a fragment might be any alter that could not survive if left on its own or that could not pass for a fully developed individual without the help of other alters.

Fragments usually have not been exposed to enough complex, different, or interactive experiences to incorporate more into their sense of self and so become more developed and differentiated. It is possible for fragments to develop into more elaborate alters if the need arises or with further use. It is important to remember that different systems have different needs, and systems may or may not have one or more alters for each of the above jobs.

In smaller systems particularly, alters might hold multiple roles, some of which may even at first seem contradictory. For example, an alter might be persecutory to the system yet strive to protect it from outsiders. Other alters might hold roles that are specific to the system and would be difficult to define or generalize. Alters may hold unexpected roles, such as a child part handling finances or presenting in a persecutory manner.

While fragments may be defined by their roles, other parts may be able to act in more complex and less reactive ways. The most well developed alters may be able to handle a wide variety of roles if this becomes necessary for the system's continued functioning. Finally, it should be remembered that an alter's roles can change over time. This website uses cookies in order to analyze visitor trends.

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It is not intended to be used as a substitute for professional diagnosis and treatment. Otarolera enkenya yabo abatakwinira kintu kyoona kwihaho ebigenderwa ebibi. Zabuli Lakwena Grace Lubega. Jabuli KJV ; Ai Rwot, lukworra gitye pol; tela wek ati gin ma tye atir i nyimi, dok imi yoni ma alubo obed atir. I kwan i kom tam pa dano ki kit ma dano kwo kwede, Auna obedo kit kwo me kwero bedo maber kacel ki dano.

Kadi ka lukony dano, ma ki nywako loke i devotions ma okato angec, timo jemi pi gin kengi, Jo ma uno dano obedo dano ma kitgi atir pi gin kengi. Jo ma uno dano gin ye ni dano ducu ki acel acel opore me nongo gin ma gin nongo dok oneno ka ka bino. Gin wake i poto pa dano mukene dok pe obi niang matwal ni jami mukene ma time bot jo mukene gin pe ki twero me timo gin mo iye. Ki bot ngat ma uno dano, paro pi dano obedo gin me mung. En obedo ngat acel moni eno ni ma tye ka lworo ceng mo ki deyo kace lobo mukene gak ma otwene.

Kabedo me ber kit kama en cung iye obedo ma o ile twatwal ma en nene keken ni en aye langolkop ma opore pi dano ducu ma tye ki apoka poka.

Jo ma uno dano pako lebgi ki yomcwiny madit kare ducu ma ngat mo opoto i peko onyo i gin marac. Lubanga pe olwongo in me bedo calo police pa kit ma myero dano okwo kwede maber onyo adada dok me keto miti mogo i kit dano.

Kono do, Lubanga mito ni meno in ileg pi dano. Me medo, Lubanga pe mito ni ibed ki par pien i tye i auna. Cawa mukene, omyero ikany auna ma meg-gi me gero ma konye peke wek i cung. Daudi i wi kwan ma mewa ma okwongo me Lok acoya pa Lubanga waco ki Lubanga me telo en iyo ma mere me kit ma atir pi lukwora.

Pe iter iti iwiny jo ma pe gwoko gin mo pi in ento miti ma rac. His slaves crave death more than they desire freedom. He denies them both. Mythic Rare. All Sets:. Card Number:. You keep playing. It will just preclude that player from losing the game as a result.